Monday, March 16, 2009

WE can finally say that it is over!

No dont get me wrong, I belive in Child Support...for the NEED of the Children... NOT for the NEED of Your selfish behavior. But when you are abusing it YOU DO NOT DESERVE NOTHING!!!! Here is our story.. Husband has 3 sons.. 20, 19 and one 17 that will be 18 in June. We have been paying child support for all 3 (the same amount).. each time one would come of age, the amount did not go down.. because the divorce decree did not stipulate an amount for each child.. Fair enough.. What's done is done.. its all good... BUT when the children, (MOST GROWN) are NOT receiving a penny of it for clothes or food or anything.. NOT even shelter cause she let her house go to forclosure...Not for a vehicle, cause she got that repoed...But for her partying and drinking. Why does she need it??? hmmm... Ok.. still have to pay it.. OH well.. right.. a court order is a court order... SOOOO we get a call one day! GUESS what!!!! the 17 year old has moved out of the house 3 months ago!!! Mom does not tell DHS.. DOES not tell ex/father.. BUT DOES TELL CHILDREN... DONT TELL YOUR DAD, CAUSE THEN I WONT GET MY CHILD SUPPORT MONEY!!! Then there is something F**ked up about that! DHS was immediatly called... Mother was contacted MANY... MANY times by DHS and would not take their calls.. will not take EX's calles. Treats children horrible cause "they" supposedly ratted her out! (which they did not) We have many sources! 17 yr old supplied a written statement to DHS about his living arrangements... and all of his story... Well... NEEDLESS to say! ITS OVER! AS OF LAST WEEK!!! We have a court order to STOP payment! NOW SHE WILL NOT BE DRINKING ON US ANYMORE!!! Go get a freaken job! or continue to let the man of the month support you! Because we are not OBLIGATED TO ANYMORE!!!! KARMA IS THE BEST THING IN LIFE! YOU LIVE A GOOD LIFE.. YOU ARE TREATED GOOD! I am a big believer in Karma....

NOW we will be living a GREAT life! not that we were not... cause belive me we DO HAVE the BEST life! but now.. we can and will live life to the fullest.. cause we are not supporting a DRUNK!!!! LIFE is good... Life is damn good... HOW can it not be!!! We are done with her! WE have a GrandBABY.. (lil boy) on the way... and we are looking to move with in the next year! We have a 3 Happy kids at home.. Who want for NOTHING.. and a stable and loving marriage! :D